{"id":3431,"date":"2022-11-08T19:41:43","date_gmt":"2022-11-08T16:41:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/?p=3431"},"modified":"2023-02-25T20:44:40","modified_gmt":"2023-02-25T17:44:40","slug":"limite-si-iar-limite-dar-cu-blandete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/limite-si-iar-limite-dar-cu-blandete\/","title":{"rendered":"Limite \u0219i iar limite, dar&#8230; cu bl\u00e2nde\u021be!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e<em>O libertate f\u0103r\u0103 limite ucide libertatea!<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Honor\u00e9 de Balzac<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S-a mai scris \u0219i probabil c\u0103 se va mai scrie, pentru c\u0103 este at\u00e2t de mare nevoia de a ne cre\u0219te s\u0103n\u0103tos copiii, de a-i educa, <strong>acum<\/strong>, pentru <strong>acum<\/strong>, dar \u0219i pentru <strong><em>mai t\u00e2rziu<\/em><\/strong>, cu iubire, cu grij\u0103, cu limite!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorim s\u0103 devin\u0103 oameni care s\u0103 poat\u0103 iubi, empatiza, respecta&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 mult\u0103 literatur\u0103 de specialitate, studii ample, despre cum s\u0103 ne cre\u0219tem copiii, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t via\u021ba lor s\u0103 fie una frumoas\u0103 \u0219i \u00eemplinit\u0103. Exist\u0103 multe indica\u021bii de parenting, spre care noi, p\u0103rin\u021bii, ne aplec\u0103m, dar nu trebuie uitat c\u0103 fiecare copil este o individualitate \u00een sine \u0219i prime\u0219te o zestre de la p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103i. Altfel spus, este nevoie ca noi, p\u0103rin\u021bii, s\u0103 punem acolo, pentru dezvoltarea armonioas\u0103 a copilului, toate ingredientele necesare, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 devin\u0103 o fiin\u021b\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103, capabil\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i afle propriul s\u0103u drum, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 zestrea d\u0103ruit\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ceea ce nu trebuie s\u0103 uit\u0103m este c\u0103 vigilen\u021ba p\u0103rintelui, atunci c\u00e2nd a devenit p\u0103rinte, este pentru <strong><em>totdeauna<\/em><\/strong>, este <strong><em>neadormit\u0103<\/em><\/strong>, chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd p\u0103rintele se simte epuizat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce vom pune ne\u00eencetat, iar \u0219i iar, \u00een bagajul de via\u021b\u0103 al copilului? Vom pune acele valori care \u00eel vor ajuta pe copil s\u0103 ajung\u0103 <strong>OM<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Responsabilitatea, iubirea de oameni, exprimarea emo\u021biilor, siguran\u021ba \u0219i suportul emo\u021bional, empatia, \u00eencrederea, sinceritatea, adev\u0103rul \u0219i <strong>curajul de a alege adev\u0103rul<\/strong>, <strong>transparen\u021ba<\/strong>&nbsp;de care ar trebui s\u0103 d\u0103m dovad\u0103 ca p\u0103rin\u021bi, morala, stima de sine, respectul pentru ceilal\u021bi, sus\u021binerea, generozitatea, polite\u021bea, autonomia, comunicarea, cooperarea, cuv\u00e2ntul dat, integritatea, compasiunea, acceptarea, sunt c\u00e2teva dintre valorile \u00een care ne model\u0103m copiii, nu doar prin faptul c\u0103 le aducem la cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 aceste valori, ci &nbsp;prin practicarea lor \u00een fiecare zi, \u00een familie, prin a deveni noi \u00een\u0219ine aceste valori, cum am mai subliniat \u00een articole anterioare. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar pentru ca aceste lucruri s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple, copilul are nevoie de libertate, acea libertate \u00een\u021beleas\u0103 corect, fiindc\u0103 ea implic\u0103 \u0219i limite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acest lucru poate suna paradoxal, dar importan\u021ba limitelor \u00een educa\u021bia copilului nu trebuie neglijat\u0103 niciodat\u0103. Copilul are nevoie de limite, at\u00e2t pentru \u00een\u021belegerea conceptului de libertate, de autonomie, c\u00e2t \u0219i pentru propia lui siguran\u021b\u0103. De aceea, este important s\u0103 stabilim limite \u00een educa\u021bia copilului, s\u0103 le impunem \u00eentr-un mod corect, s\u0103-l ajut\u0103m s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 care sunt consecin\u021bele \u00eenc\u0103lc\u0103rii lor. Ceea ce este important este c\u0103 limitele se stabilesc \u00eentr-un climat cald, afectuos, \u00een care p\u0103rintele \u00ee\u0219i manifest\u0103 ne\u00eencetat iubirea pentru copil. C\u00e2nd copilul simte dragostea, accept\u0103 mai u\u0219or limitele, regulile \u0219i corectarea comportamentelor. Educa\u021bia cu bl\u00e2nde\u021be nu este sinonim\u0103 cu educa\u021bia f\u0103r\u0103 limite, f\u0103r\u0103 reguli, f\u0103r\u0103 respect. Nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 nu \u00eei spui niciodat\u0103 \u201dNu\u201d copilului. Dac\u0103 cel mic face doar ce vrea, este un copil dezorientat \u0219i, de multe ori, inadaptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un p\u0103rinte ferm nu este un p\u0103rinte dur. El \u0219tie s\u0103 impun\u0103 limite copilului, cu bl\u00e2nde\u021be! Acel p\u0103rinte \u0219tie c\u0103 \u201ea educa\u201d nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 a repeta cuvinte, ci \u00eenseamn\u0103 a crea idei, \u00eenseamn\u0103 a produce o stare de lini\u0219te copilului!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Stabilirea limitelor s\u0103n\u0103toase \u00een educa\u021bia copilului presupune coeren\u021b\u0103, consecven\u021b\u0103 \u0219i mult\u0103, mult\u0103 r\u0103bdare! <\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Stabilirea limitelor presupune l\u0103murirea valorilor \u0219i a regulilor din familia respectiv\u0103.<\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Stabilirea limitelor \u00eenseamn\u0103 punerea \u00een practic\u0103 a limitelor, cu fermitate \u0219i bl\u00e2nde\u021be. <\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Stabilirea limitelor \u00eenseamn\u0103 o comunicare corect\u0103, care s\u0103 implice toat\u0103 familia!<\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Psih. Ileana Z\u0103rnescu<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Psihoterapie cognitiv \u2013 comportamental\u0103<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"483\" height=\"696\" src=\"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Zarnescu-oct2022.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3432\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eO libertate f\u0103r\u0103 limite ucide libertatea!\u201d \u2013 Honor\u00e9 de Balzac S-a mai scris \u0219i probabil c\u0103 se va mai scrie, pentru c\u0103 este at\u00e2t de mare nevoia de a ne cre\u0219te s\u0103n\u0103tos copiii, de a-i educa, acum, pentru acum, dar \u0219i pentru mai t\u00e2rziu, cu iubire, cu grij\u0103, cu limite! 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