{"id":3427,"date":"2022-12-05T18:57:06","date_gmt":"2022-12-05T15:57:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/?p=3427"},"modified":"2023-02-25T20:42:43","modified_gmt":"2023-02-25T17:42:43","slug":"fiecare-copil-este-unic-echilibrul-intre-limite-si-dragoste-nelimitata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/fiecare-copil-este-unic-echilibrul-intre-limite-si-dragoste-nelimitata\/","title":{"rendered":"Fiecare copil este unic &#8211; Echilibrul \u00eentre limite \u0219i dragoste nelimitat\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u201ea fi unic\u201d? Nu, nu se traduce prin \u201esingur la p\u0103rin\u021bi\u201d, ci prin \u00een\u021belegerea la care fiecare ar trebui s\u0103 ajung\u0103: \u201eacesta sunt eu\u201d \u0219i \u201edoar eu sunt astfel\u201d, dar \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 to\u021bi cei din jurul meu au aceast\u0103 cert\u0103 defini\u021bie. Niciunul nu este \u201erepetabil\u201d, to\u021bi purt\u0103m \u00een noi chipul lui Dumnezeu!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da, suntem unici, pentru c\u0103 Dumnezeu ne-a cl\u0103dit a\u0219a! Iar aceasta reprezint\u0103 o valoare \u00een sine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar cum reu\u0219im s\u0103 \u00eei transmitem copilului\/ copiilor no\u0219tri, pe de o parte, \u00eencredere \u00een puterea de a cre\u0219te \u0219i de a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba, iar pe de alt\u0103 parte, sentimentul onestit\u0103\u021bii, al asum\u0103rii, \u00een rela\u021bie cu ceilal\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ca p\u0103rin\u021bi, este important s\u0103 le vorbim \u0219i s\u0103 le ar\u0103t\u0103m copiilor, iar \u0219i iar, zi de zi, \u00eenc\u0103 de c\u00e2nd sunt mici, ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 sinceritatea, dreptatea, onestitatea, mila, empatia, determinarea, cooperarea, \u00eencrederea, respectul, d\u0103ruirea, &nbsp;spiritualitatea, iubirea, toate prin exemplul personal, ori chiar prin crearea unor situa\u021bii, folosind jocul de rol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acelea\u0219i calit\u0103\u021bi \u2013 sau defecte, \u00een\u021belese \u0219i asumate \u2013 care ne fac unici &#8211; sunt verigi \u00een rela\u021biile cu semenii, iar pentru copii, \u00een comunit\u0103\u021bile formate de grupele de la gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103, de clase, ori de \u0219coal\u0103 \u00een ansamblul ei, este important s\u0103 aib\u0103 valori \u00een care s\u0103 cread\u0103 \u0219i pe care s\u0103 le urmeze, fiindc\u0103 pe acestea le vor lua cu ei \u00een bagajul vie\u021bii!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avem nevoie de o ancor\u0103 spiritual\u0103, unde <em>Eu<\/em>&nbsp;se bucur\u0103 de<em>&nbsp;\u00eempreun\u0103<\/em>, iar \u00eencrederea \u00een sine este sus\u021binut\u0103 de credin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Copiii iau ce li se d\u0103! Dac\u0103 le d\u0103m valori \u0219i principii, le vor lua cu ei!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u00eei l\u0103s\u0103m s\u0103-\u0219i consolideze egocentrismul, a\u0219a vor cre\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Egocentrismul, sau credin\u021ba c\u0103 el este centrul universului,&nbsp;este o caracteristic\u0103 general\u0103 a copilului,&nbsp;care se pozi\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u00een mod firesc pe primul plan, f\u0103r\u0103 a putea, p\u00e2n\u0103 la o anumit\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103, s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 cont de ce este \u00een jurul s\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ca atare, p\u0103rin\u021bii, apoi educatorii,&nbsp;au datoria s\u0103-l \u00eenve\u021be pe copil s\u0103 fie cooperant cu ceilal\u021bi \u0219i c\u0103 \u201edoar \u00eempreun\u0103 suntem mai puternici\u201d, nu excluz\u00e2ndu-i pe ceilal\u021bi. Lec\u021bia \u201enu doar EU sunt important, ci \u00eempreun\u0103 suntem importan\u021bi\u201d trebuie \u00eens\u0103 predat\u0103 cu r\u0103bdare, zi de zi, f\u0103r\u0103 ostenta\u021bie \u0219i cu m\u0103sur\u0103, mai cu seam\u0103 prin exemple personale, din care orice copil \u00een\u021belege \u0219i re\u021bine mult mai mult dec\u00e2t din explica\u021bii teoretice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum facem toate acestea? \u00cen rela\u021bia cu copilul, p\u0103rintele, dar \u0219i educatorul, trebuie s\u0103 transmit\u0103 c\u0103 principiile \u0219i valorile nu pot fi negociate!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen rela\u021bia cu copilul, p\u0103rintele este p\u0103rinte \u0219i apoi prieten! El este cel care stabile\u0219te limite, r\u0103m\u00e2ne ferm \u0219i consecvent, nu-\u0219i pierde r\u0103bdarea, comunic\u0103, dar este constant iubitor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd, este nevoie ca noi, p\u0103rin\u021bii \u0219i educatorii, s\u0103 ne cunoa\u0219tem \u0219i s\u0103 ne recunoa\u0219tem minusurile, pe care s\u0103 ne str\u0103duim s\u0103 le corect\u0103m, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 putem s\u0103-l ajut\u0103m pe copil s\u0103 creasc\u0103 armonios cu sine \u0219i cu ceilal\u021bi, \u00een unicitatea lui!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Psih. <strong>Ileana Z\u0103rnescu<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Psihoterapie cognitiv &#8211; comportamental\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"1190\" src=\"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/11noiembrie2022.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3429\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u201ea fi unic\u201d? Nu, nu se traduce prin \u201esingur la p\u0103rin\u021bi\u201d, ci prin \u00een\u021belegerea la care fiecare ar trebui s\u0103 ajung\u0103: \u201eacesta sunt eu\u201d \u0219i \u201edoar eu sunt astfel\u201d, dar \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 to\u021bi cei din jurul meu au aceast\u0103 cert\u0103 defini\u021bie. Niciunul nu este \u201erepetabil\u201d, to\u021bi purt\u0103m \u00een noi chipul lui Dumnezeu! Da, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3435,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8,4],"tags":[33,62,229,55,10,57,150],"class_list":["post-3427","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog-appo","category-evenimente","tag-academia-parintilor-preocupati","tag-educatie","tag-ileana-zarnescu","tag-inteligenta-emotionala","tag-liceul-pedagogic-anastasia-popescu","tag-psihologie","tag-revista-universul-copiilor"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3427","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3427"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3427\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3430,"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3427\/revisions\/3430"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3435"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3427"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3427"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anastasiapopescu.ro\/liceu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3427"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}